Seriously tho. Why *should* she be asked to smile?
Asking a woman to smile is to make her more approachable. It’s to make you feel more comfortable - not her. I, personally, have zero fucks to give about being approachable to strange men on the street. Women are not here to entertain and please random folks.
Asking me to smile is akin to asking me to jump. Um. For what?
There’s this weird responsibility placed on women to be happy and lady-like and pleasant all of the time. It rids us of being able to express our own range of human emotions.
No one is asking for men and women to not interact with each other. That’s silly. This project is asking for women to be interacted with as if they have agency over their own bodies.
Creator of the Stop Telling Women To Smile project responded to a person who thinks women not smiling on demand is proof of the end of the world and division among men and women. (Seriously? WTF.)
Funny…I told my best friend about that person’s comment and she said it is the end of the world and division…for that person. A world shaped by the status quo is a world being shaken by the resistance to this status quo. The amount of hatred and bile I’ve faced since I started speaking out about street harassment has been interesting in that some men genuinely process harming women as necessary to their masculinity and thereby their identity. They think critique and rejection of street harassment is an attack on their identity, which is frightening…
"Asking me to smile is akin to asking me to jump. Um. For what?"
Kimya Dawson /// Loose Lips
No one is “entitled” to an opinion that perpetuates harmful stereotypes and furthers violence against an entire group of people.
if ur sad or stressed just breathe and look at this picture of moss under a microscope
i hope ur doing ok pal, look at all those cutie chloroplasts aw
Moving Mountains /// Hudson
trashedy asked: If the world would end tomorrow, what would you be doing today?
tw: alcohol, food
I would probably find a way to adopt a corgi companion then go see Momz and Myah (pup companion) for a bit then ask the queen and Sara to go get burritos (and other snacks for the corgi companion) and then ask them to hang out somewhere in Mother to board and drink a few brews and run around/play with the corgi companion and tell the queen and Sara that they mean so much to me and I’d ask to hold the queen’s hand a lot and ask if I could kiss her bunches and we’d all sit on the beach and watch the stars when they came out (if they were down) and snuggle with the queen and corgi companion and just talk and this is making me emotional and so thankful and thank you for sending me this, friend, because thinking about this has been a pretty experience.
Daughter /// Landfill
"So it’s all come back round to breaking apart again…
Breaking apart like I’m made up of glass again.”